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Congratulations, you are getting married! 

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If you are interested in getting married at our church, here are a few things you should know.

You will probably want to talk with the pastor about your interest in having a wedding at United and he will be happy to talk with you at your mutual convenience. If you wish to proceed with your wedding planning, you should know that our church is governed by a Consistory, which meets monthly, and is made up of church members serving as Elders and Deacons and the Pastor. It is the Consistory that will ultimately approve your wedding service at United. They request that you attend worship on at least two occasions prior to your wedding being approved and occasionally, as you are able, between the approval and your wedding day. They ask this of you so that you will be well-assured that the way our Pastor conducts services will compliment your expectations for your wedding service. There is also a religious and community dimension to making your vows at United and we want you to be comfortable with who we are. We do NOT require membership prior to approval; only familiarity.

Once the Consistory has approved your wedding date, you will meet several times with the Pastor. A series of pre-marital counseling sessions are not required. The Pastor will provide you with some helpful questions to consider prior to getting married and you will have time to talk about them during your meetings.

If you would like more information about our wedding policy or to arrange an appointment with the Pastor, please call the church office at (908) 725-4545 or email our pastor at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.